Whether it is a romantic relationship or if it is a family relationship, there are a few things that can make it hard for people to hold on to. Things that become persistent in the relationships turn into a liability rather than an asset. They do not serve their purpose and are more likely to make people insecure rather than help them grow into better human beings.
Things that make a relationship harder may be:
Lack Of Communication And Comprehension
People who are in a relationship are supposed to communicate with each other. There is no point in being rude to each other and neglecting each other’s feelings just because one does not feel comfortable being vulnerable. Relationships are supposed to be a safe space, and either partner should be given space to feel comfortable.
Feelings and disagreements should be laid out on the table for each partner to assess and talk about. Comprehension is also very important while communicating. One can lay everything out on the table, but if either partner does not understand what they mean, they will not be able to come to a resolution. Understanding where the other person is coming from is very important and should be given immense attention.
Have High Expectations
Having high expectations is like setting each other up for loss. Relationships are complex, and expectations make people exhaust themselves in order to fulfill each other’s needs. Keeping low expectations is healthy. This does not mean either partner has low standards, but they understand that every individual has problems and does not come from the same background. Having low expectations helps the relationship grow and also shows how willing either person is to make the other happy.
Not Taking Responsibility
No one enjoys being with a person who refuses to accept their mistakes. Accepting where you’re wrong and fixing the situation is a lot better than blaming each other for any mistake. An essential point to remember in a relationship is the fact that neither of you is the problem. You are not supposed to fight each other but are supposed to act as a team and fight the problem.
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